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面对面着特定性格，我学会了和人说人话， 和鬼说鬼话的道理。
不是我对你的 印 象存有偏见， 但当你挑战我的 度 ， 我更加理解为何律师和IT 工程师大多出于厉害twist and turn 的某种人。
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Ms. I 想另外约个时间， 和B见面理清她的要求， 不幸时间不吻合。 不过也让我领悟，造就了当今我才发现自己原来成长了不少， 学会经一事张一智。 如此有趣的辩论机会还真难得。
一来, first, you hired the exhibition gallery which is till here, 我一边指着玻璃和玻璃间的空隙, “Can you stand on your boundary?” Can you dont waste my time? “No i didnt, i try to explain where till where your hired space, whatever beyond is not yours, we cant and wouldnt clear the space.”
说我lied to client. You said you will try to clean the space. 我打岔，yes, to clarified, you said that i said will try to. Yes try to means, i will try to, but try, we dont know the outcomes isnt it. It might be great, it might be not.
That day when i was here, my partner and my client, we all heard that you said will try to. “Yea, you heard i said try to, oh but they might lie, i can also get my colleague say something to back me up, who knows”. You are a liar,” ooh you can say ððð. ” You are saying that i should record everything you said? “Ooh if there is evidence, that would be great”
And to clarify, when i meant clean, yes clean, clean is different from clear. When i say clean, is like leaves on the floor, i didnt say that we will clear the tables or anything. Clean is removing dusts, not to remove anything. Clear is different.
Come on la, we all adult, dont talk like i am kid. “Well, i am just trying to clarify, wanting to make things clear.”
说我一直打岔她， 是啊， 我故意特别强调她说过的话， 抓着她的字眼， you have no respect at all. When i try to say, you interrupt. You dont allow me to speak, when i speak you listen. You know what, you are rude.. We paid for the space.. 我点头听，啦啦～🙂
问这个， 问那个.. 抹玻璃， 厕所， loading bay, panels
You will remove the panels for us. “No, i didnt say that, when we hire out the space, by default the panels, the wooden benches are inside. Is the event organiser who will do the setup. If you are removing, please help to put back once your event done. We can and will guide you where to place the panels, but you need to cover the panels with plastic sheets as its not waterproof. 还要跟我argue 放在后墙， “no, can only be put here.”
That day when we spoke over the phone, when i asked for easels, your colleague say can take as many as you want. “Okay, then how many you want?” 3 or 4. 含糊的要求。 我抓来问，”so how many you want? 3 OR 4?” She say can take as many as i want. ” ya, but i need to check, how many you want, so that we have enough. So you want 3 or 4?” I need 3 or 4, give me 5. ” eh, but you say 3 or 4, and now you asked for 5″ 这时候更加肯定着TA们的得寸进尺。your colleague say can give as many as i want. “Yes but but but i need to clarify, we can give, but you have to know the condition of the easel, later who knows you might not okay with it. As you know its painting easels, it might not be clean one as you saw, there might be paint stains on it. ” i know, you know what, my partner is an artist, he does sketching. ” Ahh yes, sketching and painting is different” Dont try to educate me, my daughter does art for living, i know what art is ” i try to clarify, ooh but do you yourself does? Sketching is pencil, but painting is acrylic painting, oil painting, watercolour painting. You have to understand, yes we can give, but there might be paintstains. Later dont say that we didnt say. “Thats fine”
Will you clean the sink? “Yes,we will try to, but you know there is class going on during your event, we dont know, there is kids, teenager and adult dealing with paints all time. It might get dirty again, you see..”
Any last thing you want to clarify further. You tell me. “Ooh i believe you need it more than me, as we own the space, we know the specs very well, you tell us what you want.” 我继续说”okay.. Yes, i need your help to write down whatever we discussed in group, thank you. So that we can tally and avoid any miscommunications bet. you and us”
她说 My memories are very good. I can remember everything you said. 我忘了自己先前说了什么让我吐出一句，the way you twist and turn is different from my twist and turn… ” handle difficult people like you… 她走着再转头， sorry what did you said?! “Ooh what did i said, i forgot. You said your memories is good, you should heard what i said.” The words came from your mouth. “Ooh really? i forgot what did i said. ” 我转右进去画室， 她走人了。
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全世界， Jean, Jordan, Nadya, Nisa 都听到我和B 的争吵。 Nadya 也赞同，分享了在Raffles City Converse 鞋店打工的故事。 原产地的原产人问 is this fake? , 20多人一起来， 我吐槽一句“what, the whole clan is here ah?”, 我再问一句 did they buy, 大致上我已经有了答案， Nadya的答复肯定了我的答案。 ‘no, didnt’, “see, i knew it! They wouldnt buy, not to say i am racist, but based on my experience they are this kind of people – annoying, and twist and turn”
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Well, 我回BearHill 家的时机刚刚好， 不会面对着她。
Jean可爱的发来Apple Watch 感应到身边噪音， 哈哈哈！
躺在床上， 04:01了，我还在打着这日记， 回顾自己精彩辩论文字游戏， 看自己如何再一次在这种人面前捍卫自己和公司
#深夜懿谈 